Amber M Bernstein

December 17, 1936 ~ November 24, 2021 (age 84)


Amber Bernstein, a.k.a, Paula Bolin died Wednesday November 24. She was Oklahoma City’s first female private investigator in a male dominated occupation.

With her agency, Paula Bolin Investigations, she specialized in child custody matters in court cases. She had a long and distinguished career helping Oklahoma fathers win custody of their children, as well as other types of cases. She is survived by husband Doug, and two sons, Gerald and Kent. An amazing lady gone but never forgotten.

Visitation will be held from 11:00am-8:30pm on Monday, November 29 at the John M. Ireland & Son Funeral Home & Chapel in Moore. Graveside services will begin at 2:00pm Tuesday, November 30 at the Denver Cemetery in Norman, Oklahoma.

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November 29, 2021

11:00 PM to 8:30 PM
John M. Ireland & Son Funeral Home & Chapel
120 S. Broadway Ave.
Moore, OK 73160

Graveside Service
November 30, 2021

2:00 PM
Denver Cemetery
701 108th Ave SE
Norman, OK 73026

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